It's always good to see your kid(s) doing great, it raises yourself as well.
As my son works, staying mostly off alcohol, and just enjoys the occasional reefer here, he saves up, and has high work ethics.
As long he is happy I'm not pushing him, did that enough at 32 he is old and wise enough to sort his own life.
I've never been materialistic, just basic needs, some hobby, and get on in life, help out others when they need it.
In the autumn of my life I'm happy with what I did, that is the most important part, looking forward to see our kids being successful in life they way they want to live it, not what is expected from them.