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    Orca Whisperer W3WN's Avatar
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    Self-Justification

    So tell me what impression this leaves you about this person...

    End of last week, I get an email from a potential candidate for the club's next VE Test Session, which will be at our hamfest at the end of the month. No problem, I reply to him with the usual spiel about what to bring. Including 2 forms of ID, and copies of them that we send in with the paperwork, as the club team has always done.

    Monday, I get an email from the ARRL VEC. Seems the candidate contacted them about some concerns. Turns out that our procedure on this is obsolete... newer rules now state only 1 photo ID, and we don't have to submit copies of anything; in fact, they never look at those copies. (We're not the only VE team that isn't/wasn't aware of this change, but that's another story). Only copies of an existing license or CSCE are now requested. OK. No big deal, and that makes it easier on us, so fine.

    So... I come back from lunch today, and I have a long, rambling email from the candidate. It starts off sounding like an apology for getting us in trouble with the VEC (we're not), and then goes on... and on... and on. Essentially, the impression one gets is that he's justifying why he contacted the VEC and complained about our procedure. That, and how tough the other clubs have been on him, and how tough life's been since he retired... stuff like that.

    I didn't have a problem before, but frankly, this email makes me uneasy. Is he feeling "guilty" over "turning us in" and is afraid we might take "revenge" of some kind? (Really?) Do I have a control freak on my hands, or just someone whose retired, bored, and looking for things to do? And does this imply that everything we do at the exam will be scrutinized for "fairness", and if something doesn't go the way he thinks it should, is he going to complain about it?

    ...FWIW, since we're going to have plenty of VE's on hand -- I want to rotate people in & out so that no one is away from the hamfest for too long -- I think it's best that I don't personally handle this guy's test & exam. This is just not sitting well with me, and it's probably best that I remove myself from a potential accusation, if you know what I mean.

    Thoughts?
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    Sounds like a lonely person who just wants an ear to bend about how fucked up his life is. I agree that you should recuse yourself from this guy's exam, for no other reason than appearance sake; you don't want to be the one who announces the results should he fail.

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    ^ What the Pope said....
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    telling the truth about them." - Adlai Stevenson (1900-1965)
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    Quote Originally Posted by PA5COR View Post
    ^ What the Pope said....
    yep, pretty much
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    Yeah, I can see that.

    OK. I'll treat him accordingly for the time being, pending evidence to the contrary.

    That's why I needed a fresh perspective on the situation.

    Gracias.
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    Quote Originally Posted by W3WN View Post
    just someone whose retired, bored, and looking for things to do?
    This explains 90% of questionable ham behavior...
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    What they said. Fer gawd's sake get him on the air ASAP so he can get on 75 meters and bitch about old guy stuff along with all the other old guys. Apologies to all you old guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by N2CHX View Post
    What they said. Fer gawd's sake get him on the air ASAP so he can get on 75 meters and bitch about old guy stuff along with all the other old guys. Apologies to all you old guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by N2CHX View Post
    What they said. Fer gawd's sake get him on the air ASAP so he can get on 75 meters and bitch about old guy stuff along with all the other old guys. Apologies to all you old guys.
    Get off our damn lawn, kid.
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    I was going to mention 75 (AM Gangstas excepted) but Kel beat me to it. Meanwhile a strategic retreat is in order, let somebody else handle the exam. Methinks thou doth protest too much, but better to err on the side of caution.

    Speaking of da Gangstas, Hiram W1OB the old buzzard of Buzzard's Bay, MA (a WA1 Henry Yell ARRR impersonation) really cracked me up as did all of Tim's antics.
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