Well, if you think that I am hard-assed and difficult to get along with, you are correct.

Within the last few months I have found out that my 2 youngest sons (who are adults now at 24 and 25), K1LLA and N8WTF are LGBT. I honestly did not know. They are my kids and they are not comfortable discussing some of the most important values that they hold in their lives with me. Anyway, that really crushed me that they did not share this.

Anyway, K1LLA is becoming Allison. Allison is living with friends in Chicago now. Her roommates include 2 lesbian lovers and a transgender. They are all great kids. We have had great times visiting and having chow together.

N8WTF has always been withdrawn. His BF lives on the internet in FL. We have not yet been introduced. Maybe someday.

I am proud of my 2 kids there. They are bright and energetic and good kids. I wouldn't have them any other way. I would put on some flame retardant clothing at this point, but I deserve all the heat I can get for the way I have apparently been. When I said earlier that I cannot tell, I really wasn't joking. I am just that oblivious.