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    Relationship

    Ok,

    Well im back here on the forums again, and posting again....and you probly guessed what this post is about and some of you are probly rolling your eyes, and are like "oh geesh not another one of these threads from 'Rpp"

    This one is different, this one has to deal with the feelings that people have for each other. My question is, why the heck cant people stay out of peoples buisness and have to try to control how they feel. Ok here is the story.

    I have found someone that i really truly love, and i wanna spend the rest of my life with, and she wants the same. Her father doesnt like me (again, that seems to be a common problem). Now, i know what you all are thinking, how old is she RPP? That isnt important, what is important is, how come people have to try and mess with peoples feelings. The night that she told her father about me, she called me up in tears for almost 45 minutes cuz her dad flew off the handle and threatened to call the cops.

    So basicly, heres the situation, her father had gotten ahold of her laptop, and basicly blocked off all avenues of commmunitcation between us. My question is, if it is really true love, will we each still find a way to communicate with each other?

    If we do find a way to keep in touch, do you think our relationship will still work out the same?

    The last words i remember her saying to me are "I gotta go for a bit Guy, i love you, always and forever".

    I even wrote a poem for her, but her dad found the poem, and again he went crazy over that too, oll share that a little later, but anyways, why are there assholes that have to try to control peoples feelings?

    On a last night, i have reasonable doubt to believe that her father is abusing her, but i never have yet gotten her to actually come out and say he is, she wants out of her fathers hous, but had said she cant cuz she has no place else to go. .


    last note, she lives in canada, 2 and a half hours away from me....

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    Do you really want an honest answer or do you want your ear tickled? Cuz between my own life and my 21 year old daughter's life I have a lot of experience in this area. I'll let you know now -- yer not gonna like my honest answer but my honest answer will probably save you years of heartache if you at least take it into consideration.
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    There's a Benny Mardonis song dancing through my head at the moment...
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    Quote Originally Posted by N8YX View Post
    There's a Benny Mardonis song dancing through my head at the moment...
    You too, eh?
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    well... how old is she?
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    I'm gonna make it simple...

    A) She still lives under her father's roof, so IT IS his business, particularly if she's underage, which I'm guessing she is.
    B) Her father probably paid for that laptop and he no doubt pays the internet bill too.
    C) Her father has good reason to be wary of older guys around his daughter, as all fathers do. If he didn't care, I wouldn't have any respect for him.
    D) PAY ATTENTION TO THIS ONE -- If she's as young as I'm guessing she is, she will use you as a means to get out from under "mean old dad who spoils all my fun"'s roof. And she'll then expect you to take care of her. And it could get uglier than that. If you knock her up, don't expect it to last. Don't say it won't happen either. And then you're going to be paying child support for the next 21 years (if the case is heard in NY, yep, 21 years not 18 . And worse, if she decides she hates you, expect her to turn that "my father abuses me" thing into "my ex-boyfriend abused me." DON'T SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU!!! Sure, not every girl does this, but I've seen it happen. Like firsthand. More than once. Your life will be hell for the next 21 years. So my advice would be...... stop thinking with your dick and RUN!

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    Quote Originally Posted by N2KKM View Post
    I'm gonna make it simple...

    A) She still lives under her father's roof, so IT IS his business, particularly if she's underage, which I'm guessing she is.
    B) Her father probably paid for that laptop and he no doubt pays the internet bill too.
    C) Her father has good reason to be wary of older guys around his daughter, as all fathers do. If he didn't care, I wouldn't have any respect for him.
    D) PAY ATTENTION TO THIS ONE -- If she's as young as I'm guessing she is, she will use you as a means to get out from under "mean old dad who spoils all my fun"'s roof. And she'll then expect you to take care of her. And it could get uglier than that. If you knock her up, don't expect it to last. Don't say it won't happen either. And then you're going to be paying child support for the next 21 years (if the case is heard in NY, yep, 21 years not 18 . And worse, if she decides she hates you, expect her to turn that "my father abuses me" thing into "my ex-boyfriend abused me." DON'T SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU!!! Sure, not every girl does this, but I've seen it happen. Like firsthand. More than once. Your life will be hell for the next 21 years. So my advice would be...... stop thinking with your dick and RUN!
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    You misunderstand the situation, it's not about minding one's own business or messing with someone's feelings, it's all about control. He's "protecting" his daughter, an all time classic I have experienced a few times myself. Older and wiser now I see it for what it is and impart this wisdom to you who and please don't mind my saying you appear to be young and naive. There's always hope everlasting, if he's as overbearing as you say she's fed up and when she turns 18 she'll be out on her own and fair game. Just be prepared for some fierce competition if she's all you say she is. You'll be older and wiser too and with any luck happily married to her, you'll look back and laugh.

    Kelli, gotta love ya! Knowing a bit about you I can imagine your answer as I sit here with a shit eating grin... slowly developing into an evil grin with horns.

    Uh oh, Kelli replied as I was writing and guess what... my thoughts entirely only stated differently. Now HOW did I ever guess? Well, there are always two sides to a coin and I'm Pollyanna.
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    Kelli gives spot-on advice. You would be wise to heed it.
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    Kelli hit that one out of the park Listen to her.
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